Link Out to Others

Before social media took over, everyone was chasing backlinks. Bloggers spammed the comment sections of bigger websites just to drop a link. Hustlers built entire networks of small “satellite” sites pointing to their main ones. You could even submit your site to directories just to get a mention with a link.

At some point, an entire industry grew around this — selling backlinks on sketchy (often Indian) websites for $5 on Fiverr.

Today, nobody really talks about backlinks anymore. As social media exploded, influencer shoutouts became the new gold. “Hit like and subscribe—and if you can, share my stuff on social media.” That’s how countless YouTubers end their videos. And it’s also the moment when many viewers click away, because they already know what’s coming.

I still believe links matter—not necessarily to get backlinks and please Google’s algorithm to climb higher in search results, but because links have a genuine human value.

Here’s a blog I enjoy: Chris Guillebeau – The Art of Non-Conformity
And here’s a YouTube channel I like: Nerdwriter

Both creators are far too big for me to expect anything in return for linking to them. They very likely will never share this post, give me a shoutout, or even notice my little blog. But what I gain from it is recommending something great to my readers.

I like reading Guillebeau’s blog, and I enjoy Nerdwriter’s video essays. I’m sure that some of my readers will too. Of course, many may already know them, but some might not—and for them, I’ve just shared two excellent links that make my site a bit more valuable.

Linking out also helps shape your online identity. The things you enjoy consuming reflect the kind of things you enjoy creating. These two links give my readers a clearer sense of who I am and what kind of content they can expect from me. It helps them decide whether they want to stick around.

So, if you want my advice: Link out to others as often as you can. Don’t expect anything in return. Don’t hope for a shoutout or a backlink. Do it for your readers—to offer value and share something worth their time.

Writing a Blog Will Improve Your Writing

Everyone I’ve ever talked to says they could write a book. Many people even have an idea for a novel. Yet, whenever I talk to them again after some time, they haven’t made much progress—if they’ve started at all.

The main reason most people never write a book is because it requires delayed gratification. You can’t write a book in a day. Only the truly obsessed finish one in a week, rarely is a book completed in a month. Usually, it takes many months to shape your idea into something polished enough to publish—and most people don’t want to wait that long for the gratification of holding the finished book in their hands.

Blogs are different. You can write something in an hour, click “publish,” and enjoy your reward immediately.

If you keep at it long enough, you might even build an audience to interact with—and maybe even earn some money from it. But what you’ll definitely gain is the daily satisfaction of creating something.

Even though blogging is different from writing a book, it still follows the same principles.

In my case, blogging isn’t just a daily exercise in honing my craft; it’s also a way to improve my English. Sure, my English is far from perfect, but I’ve become much better thanks to this blog.

If English is your native language, blogging will still expand your communication skills. It makes you think about how to express your ideas and arguments more clearly. It pushes you to broaden your vocabulary and experiment with phrasing. It also strengthens your storytelling muscle, since every blog post follows a structure similar to a story scene:

  • Grab the reader’s attention.
  • Keep them engaged so they stay with you.
  • End with a clear, satisfying conclusion that makes your post (or scene) feel complete.

Do you feel like you could write a book?

Start by writing a blog for a month or two—you’ll train your brain well enough to start tackling that 300-page novel, and succeed this time.

Niche Websites Are Over — Build a You Website Instead

I created my first website decades ago. It was a German fitness site that earned me about $100 a month at its peak. While trying to figure out how to drive traffic, attract readers, and make a bit more money from it, I stumbled upon the concept of niche websites.

Back then, everyone was recommending building websites with an extremely narrow focus. I read about one guy who made a site about Micro Machines (the toy cars), another who built one about microscopes, and another about flip knives.

The idea was simple: the more specific your topic, the less competition you’d have. That way, Google would send traffic your way almost instantly for a particular keyword. It worked — for a while. My site made its $100 a month consistently but never really grew beyond that until I moved on to different ideas.

Today, nobody builds niche sites anymore. The market is oversaturated, and AI has taken a huge share of the pie. Trends come and go — and niche sites are definitely going.

Not long ago, NFTs were the hottest thing online. Everyone was talking about those pixelated ape images selling for thousands of dollars. Now? Almost no one mentions them. The market has dried up completely.

When you build your brand around a trend, everything you do becomes tied to it. And when the trend fades, your brand fades too.

That’s why most niche sites have such short lifespans. Just like NFTs, they might enjoy a year or two of hype where you can make some quick money, but after that, it’s over.

So what if, instead of chasing trends, you make your website — and your brand — about yourself?

Now we’re talking about a personal blog, one that documents your way through life. This year you might be focused on getting fit and losing weight. Once you reach that goal, maybe you’ll write about building an online business. And perhaps two years from now, if NFTs make a comeback, you’ll explore that too and share the process.

Sure, not every reader will follow you in every direction. But most readers aren’t there just for your first topic — they’re there for you. And you’ll still be you, whether you’re writing about fitness, online entrepreneurship, or digital collectibles.

That’s why creating a You website is the better way. Such websites don’t fade when a trend fades. As long as people are online and reading, there will be an audience for your writing.

Whatever your interests are, make your blog about you.

For example, I could have started a generic blog about becoming an author. There’s already plenty of content out there to copy or rewrite. I could even ask ChatGPT to write a daily post about book marketing for indie authors to publish on it.

But if I write about my personal effort — how I’m trying to become a successful author, how I market my books, how I find readers — that makes the blog interesting to read for an audience. What I do here is real, it’s authentic, it’s me.

And people who read my stuff are not just interested in the topics I cover; they’re interested in me. And as long as I keep being me, they’ll come back for more.

Why Everyone Needs a Website

People started moving to social media around 2016. I’d noticed the decline of truly worthwhile blogs to read about ten years ago. But I believe that trend is about to reverse.

Social media gives you access to a large audience, and people often expect you to have at least a Twitter account if you’re a public figure. I get that. I use Twitter and YouTube myself — and maybe, in the future, I’ll increase efforts on Instagram too.

However, the way these platforms have evolved makes having your own website more important than ever. I was banned from Medium over a year ago without a single warning, I’m fairly sure YouTube shadow-bans my channel, and German Twitter is full with state censorship for those who don’t align with the mainstream narrative.

On my website, nobody can censor me. I can write what I want and speak my mind freely on here. Some will like it, others will hate it — but no one can deplatform me here. Sure, Google might bury content it doesn’t like in the search results, but once I’ve built a loyal readership and mailing list, Google’s influence over me fades.

For authors, maintaining a blog is especially valuable because it’s a simple (and free) way for readers to discover and get into your work. I often give away books for free, but blogging is another way for potential readers to get to know me without any commitment. If you enjoy my blog, you’ll enjoy my books — guaranteed.

But I believe a website is essential for any public figure. In the near future, hosting video content will likely become very affordable. At that point, anyone could host their own vlogs, video essays, podcasts, and livestreams directly on their own site. Add a payment processor that doesn’t discriminate by political beliefs, and the bubble of mainstream media control could finally burst — giving rise to a new golden age of citizen journalism. No add AI video making and anyone could make Hollywood quality movies and post (and sell) them on their own website.

Even if you’re not an author, social commentator, vlogger, or influencer, a website is still for you. At the very least, it serves as your personal business card — a place to showcase your projects and interests. Whether you study math, play college sports, work as a plumber, invest in crypto or dividends, or love to travel — create a website and write about it. You might not become a famous influencer or make big money from it, but it will open doors.

And I’m not just talking about professional opportunities — personal ones, too. Let’s say you love riding motorbikes. With a website, you’ll quickly connect with other enthusiasts in your area. If you love reading, authors might start sending you free books or you’ll get great book recommendations by other readers. If you’re passionate about a sports team and write about them for fun, you might gain better access to games in the future.

A website simply builds credibility — in every area. And it does that far better than social media can for the average person. Sure, having a million Twitter followers is great, but what about smaller accounts like mine, with only around a thousand? Nobody cares about these accounts as they’re a dime a dozen.

A website with just 1,000 monthly readers, on the other hand, is something real — a meaningful platform that connects you with potential friends, collaborators, and opportunities.

How to Use Blogging to Become a More Interesting Man

Would you say no to having a million readers? I wouldn’t.

Still, I primarily write this blog for myself — and a tiny audience. And I enjoy it. It helps me organize my thoughts, finish the projects I start, and stay motivated to learn new things.

Blogging, as it turns out, comes with a lot of benefits.

Don’t Write Just to Gain Traffic

Writing for money used to be one of my real-life jobs — I spent years in copywriting. But writing this blog has become something completely different.

Blogging to build an audience or making money isn’t wrong. Those are fine goals. But blogging can be so much more than just another income stream.

The more I get into the habit of sharing what I learn and think, the more I realize that my learning process itself becomes deeper. Writing about what I learn helps me actually understand it. That makes blogging not just a writer–reader experience, but an introspective one as well.

Write Case Studies About Your Life

I enjoy reading blogs that document progress — and that’s exactly why I like writing about my own progress.

You can read countless blogs about fitness or nutrition and gain knowledge, but the best ones are those where an overweight guy decides to change his lifestyle and documents the journey week by week. Maybe it’s the hero’s journey element that makes such content so relatable and inspiring.

Right now, I’m trying to become a better fiction writer — maybe even a real author someday. There’s a lot to learn, test, and try. So far, I haven’t been “successful,” but I’ve improved — not just as a writer, but as a salesman for my own work.

By writing about that process, I feel accountable to keep improving. The result? Better books, more readers, and maybe, someday, a real income as an author.

Write About Books, Movies, and Other Entertainment

Experiencing the world firsthand is always the most satisfying. But some experiences I’d rather not have — like going to prison. Still, I’m curious about what life inside is like. So I picked up a book about surviving in prison lately. It wasn’t great, so I won’t recommend it here — but the topic was fascinating.

Movies, TV shows, and YouTube videos give us similar secondhand experiences. You can write about a video that changed how you see the world, a movie that made you think, or a show that taught you something meaningful.

By writing about these secondhand experiences, we often get inspired to seek out more of our own.

I never want to end up in prison — but reading about it reminded me how much I value something as simple as walking out the door and feeling the sun on my face.

Write About What You Don’t Know

I’m currently in the process of starting another YouTube channel. It’s something I plan to grow gradually, content-wise. The truth is, I don’t know much about vlogging or creating cinematic video essays. But that’s the point — the channel will force me to learn. And by writing about the process here, in real time, I’ll learn even faster.

Build a Network

One of the best things about putting yourself out there is finding like-minded people. Sure, you’ll attract some trolls and negativity — but the interesting, positive people you’ll meet make it worth it.

A personal blog lays the foundation for a network of people who share your interests and values. Most friendships start with shared experiences, hobbies, and ideas — blogging is simply a modern way of doing that.

So blogging isn’t just a way to build a professional network; it’s also a way to build real friendships.

Write About Your Plans to Create Positive Pressure

This year, I wanted to improve my fiction-writing skills. Instead of keeping that goal to myself, I made it public — and instantly created accountability. Every time I think about skipping a day of writing, I remember that I’ve already made a public commitment. And I don’t want to be “that guy” who doesn’t follow through. So I sit down and write — even when I don’t feel like it.

If you want to lose weight, start a blog. It’ll give you the push you need to hit the gym. If you want to quit drinking or smoking — write about it. If you want to travel more, start a business, or make money online — make your goals public.

On the days when motivation fades, that public commitment will keep you going.

To Conclude

Blogging is about much more than making a quick buck. Honestly, for most people, it won’t even pay minimum wage. If your only goal is to get rich, you’d probably be better off working a few extra hours at your job.

But if you love writing, blogging can be one of the most fulfilling ways to enrich your life and become a more interesting person.